The Pregnancy Loss Support Quick-Start Kit
A clear, compassionate starter plan for doulas, nurses, birth workers, postpartum doulas, therapists, and perinatal professionals who want to feel prepared when birth has a devastating outcome.
You do not have to be perfect.
You do not have to have every answer.
But you do need more than panic, silence, or a random Google search when a family’s baby dies.
This kit gives you the language, checklists, memory-making options, advocacy tools, and grounding support to help you walk into loss situations with more confidence, compassion, and care.
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Most birth professionals are trained for the happy outcome...
But what happens when there is no heartbeat?
What happens when the baby is born still?
What happens when a miscarriage is more physically and emotionally intense than anyone had prepared the family for?
What happens when the family is looking at you, and you are silently thinking:
“I don’t know what to say.”
“I don’t know what to do next.”
“I don’t want to make this worse.”
“I thought I was prepared, but I’m not sure I am.”
This is exactly why this kit exists.
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When working in our field, you DO NOT prepare for loss AFTER it happens.
You prepare before you are the person standing in the room with a grieving family.
Pregnancy and infant loss support is not about fixing grief. It is not about having perfect words. It is not about becoming emotionless or clinical.
It is about knowing how to slow the moment down, offer choices, protect the family’s space, use compassionate language, and support the baby’s memory with dignity.
It is about being steady when everything feels shattered.
Introducing:The Pregnancy Loss Support Quick-Start Kit
What You’re Getting
What to Do First When Birth Has a Devastating Outcome
A recorded masterclass to help you understand what families may need in the first moments and how to offer grounded, compassionate support.
First 24 Hours After Loss Checklist
A simple, quick-reference checklist so you are not trying to remember everything in the middle of a crisis.
Words That Don’t Wound Communication Guide
A compassionate language guide for what to say, what not to say, and how to support families without platitudes or pressure.s and how to offer grounded, compassionate support.
Memory-Making Without Pressure Checklist
A gentle guide for offering photos, handprints, footprints, holding baby, bathing, dressing, and remembrance options with consent and care.
Hospital Advocacy Cheat Sheet
Supportive language for advocating for time, space, privacy, dignity, and family-centered care while collaborating with the medical team.
Follow-Up Text Templates
Gentle messages for checking in after the loss, around milestone dates, and when the rest of the world has moved on.
Professional Self-Debrief Worksheet
A reflection and grounding tool to help you process what you witnessed and care for yourself after supporting grief.
This kit gives you everything you need to…
Stop piecing together loss support from random internet searches
Feel less panicked and more prepared
Know what to say when words feel impossible
Offer options without overwhelming the family
Understand your role as a support professional
Advocate for the family with more confidence
Support memory-making with gentleness
Care for yourself after supporting grief and trauma
Take the first step toward deeper bereavement education
The Pregnancy Loss Support Quick-Start Kit is for
you if your aBirth doula
Postpartum doula
Bereavement doula
Nurse
Therapist
Student birth worker
Midwife assistant
Perinatal professional
Support person who works with pregnant or postpartum families
And you want to feel more prepared for the hard outcomes, too.
This is especially for you if you have ever thought:
“I haven’t had a loss client yet, but I know I should be prepared.”
“My doula training touched on loss, but not enough.”
“I’m scared I’ll say the wrong thing.”
“I don’t know what my role is when a baby dies.”
“I care deeply, but I need tools.”
MEET YOUR TEACHER
Hi, I’m Vallen!
The founder and creator of Evelyn James & Company.
I’m a mom of five, a pregnancy loss educator, bereavement doula, podcast host, co-author, and the mom of Kalliana, Violet, Emmett, Bohdi and Evelyn James, my daughter who was stillborn at 40 weeks and 5 days.
Losing Evelyn changed my life in every possible way. It changed how I saw grief, motherhood, birth, support, and the way families are cared for when the unthinkable happens. After her death, I realized how deeply families need compassionate, informed support, and how many professionals want to help but do not always know what to say, what to do, or how to show up when a baby dies.
That is why I created Evelyn James & Company.
Here, we support grieving families through resources, keepsakes, podcast episodes, in-person bereavement support, and honest conversations about pregnancy loss, infant loss, motherhood, and life after loss.
We also train doulas, nurses, birth workers, therapists, and perinatal professionals to support families through miscarriage, stillbirth, TFMR, neonatal loss, infant loss, pregnancy after loss, and the grief that follows.
My heart is to help families feel less alone and to help professionals feel more prepared, compassionate, and confident in the hardest moments while also taking care of themselves.
This work exists because Evelyn lived. Because she mattered. Because families deserve better support. And because the people walking beside them deserve the tools to do this work with care.
I’m so glad you’re here. I cannot wait to meet you and see what a difference you will make!