Kind is Not the Same as Prepared
This blog explores how to show up with preparedness to any loss event. It gives explanation about why kindness, while super important, is not the same as being prepared to support a family through loss. It gives suggestions for practicical ways to be prepared to support families, in the long term and in the short.
When Compassionate Professionals Don't Know What to Say
Most professionals who support a family through pregnancy or infant loss care deeply. The problem is that many were never actually taught what to say when there is no heartbeat, a miscarriage happens, or a baby dies. When compassionate professionals do not know what to say, fear and discomfort can lead to silence, clichés, overexplaining, or words a grieving family remembers forever. This article offers a different way forward: practical, trauma informed communication that helps nurses, doulas, birth workers, and perinatal professionals stay present when families need them most.
Can a Stillborn Baby Be Cremated? What Parents Need to Know About Cremation After Stillbirth
Can a stillborn baby be cremated? Yes, and for many families, it can be a meaningful and flexible way to honor their baby. This guide walks you through cremation options, what to expect, and how to make this decision with support and compassion.
How Do You Support a Mom After Stillbirth?
Learn how to support a mother after stillbirth with compassionate, trauma-informed guidance. Practical tips for family, friends, and professionals.