Not a story I share often.. Jennifer's Story
After years of infertility, I finally got pregnant, with triplets. But at 10 weeks, I lost one of them. I carried life and loss at the same time. This story is for every parent who has grieved a baby while still holding onto hope. You’re not alone, and your baby mattered.
What to Say to Someone After Pregnancy or Infant Loss
Grief does not follow a schedule. It does not move in neat stages, and it does not end because enough time has passed. After pregnancy or infant loss, grief lives in the body, the heart, and the identity of a parent. Research shows there is no evidence-based timeline for grief—and that pressure to “move on” can actually increase suffering. In this piece, we explore what grief really looks like, why it isn’t linear, and how healing happens not through forgetting, but through integration, support, and compassion.